My deepest condolences to the O'Rourke family. Words can not express the pain and sorrow of losing those so dear to our hearts. Take comfort in knowing that very soon, we will see the promise in Revelation 21:4 fulfilled where it says: "And he will wipe out every tear from their eyes and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things have passed away." Until then, I hope the memories of Paula will help ease your sorrow and grief. May the "God of All Comfort" be with you now and in the difficult days ahead. (2 Corinthians 1:3,4)